Andy dives in to his own past struggles with porn addiction, as well as how to have sex that makes you feel good about yourself – and her too.
You Can’t Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:
My How to Get Laid on Tinder Guide (also applies to relationships, and meeting girls in person):
- Don’t just focus on “I will stop watching porn”. Make sure you also have something to work towards – something to replace the porn with.
- Focusing 100% and going all-in on your goals (especially your dating/sex goals) will give you something to focus on that isn’t porn.
- I struggled for years with a very bad porn addiction; focusing on fixing my sex life was the cure for me.
- Don’t use women to just fulfill a porn fantasy; instead, share that fantasy with them and make it a fun thing you do together.
- During sex, you can frame things as “I will aim to turn her on like crazy and make her go wild” – rather than “I’m using her to fulfill my porn fantasy”.