Andy dives in to his own past struggles with porn addiction, as well as how to have sex that makes you feel good about yourself – and her too.

Shownotes:

NoFap.com:
https://nofap.com/

You Can’t Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:

https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxury

My How to Get Laid on Tinder Guide (also applies to relationships, and meeting girls in person):

https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/

The Takeaway:

• Don’t just focus on “I will stop watching porn”. Make sure you also have something to work towards – something to replace the porn with.
• Focusing 100% and going all-in on your goals (especially your dating/sex goals) will give you something to focus on that isn’t porn.
• I struggled for years with a very bad porn addiction; focusing on fixing my sex life was the cure for me.
• Don’t use women to just fulfill a porn fantasy; instead, share that fantasy with them and make it a fun thing you do together.
• During sex, you can frame things as “I will aim to turn her on like crazy and make her go wild” – rather than “I’m using her to fulfill my porn fantasy”.