Day 21: Last Minute Resistance & Girls who Have a Boyfriend

Andy and Immy answer a listener’s questions about sex, dating, and whether or not you should have sex with a girl who has a boyfriend.

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Lots of these questions you’ll figure out yourself by talking to more girls and getting more experience.
“Last Minute Resistance” often just means you weren’t clear enough and upfront enough that you wanted to have sex.
If a girl is hesitant to have sex, just chill and back off a bit. Often she’ll warm up once she sees you’re not pushy.
Empathise with her – ask her what her concerns are and work through them.
Remember, if she’s half-naked in your bed, she wants to have sex with you. She’s just nervous/hesitant/worried/etc. It’s your job to help her have sex with you. You’re both working towards sex together.
Making girls want you mostly comes from making yourself more attractive. Hit the gym, lose some fat, dress better, get a new haircut, wear a nice watch/necklace/rings/etc.
Foreplay helps too – use my foreplay guide in the shownotes.
“Same day lays” – Tinder, or bars, or parties are the easiest.
Otherwise, try hitting on a girl in the morning. Grab a coffee with her, then hangout all day – spend the day together. Have a drink in the evening then invite her back to yours.
Or go out on a Friday and Sat night and hit on girls on the street – find one who’s willing to grab a drink with you and then afterwards, invite her back to yours.